Here's how Urban Dictionary defines a " Hard Femme ": "Not to be mistaken with the typical femme, the "hard femme" describes herself as "queer", is political, looks more feminine than masculine, and if prompted, can kick some serious ass. She doesn't need to "wear the pants" in a relationship- the hard femme rules with a dress. She not only despises the gender binary, she works to dismantle it." Navigating the queer world can be difficult. As a whole we strive to eliminate labels and break stereotypes, but along the way we have only added to them. In the binary system of (cis)man and (cis)woman, there are also several subcategories, meant to only further define who we are as individuals. "The L Word" character Bette Porter (Jennifer Beals) a true Hard Femme For example, I could be considered many things: hard femme, stem(stud &femme), or a feminine aggressive . None of these things define who I a
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