When it all Falls Down

Hmm...

All that I can do is sit an contemplate. The next move, the next pawn or the next sacrifice.


I'm patiently waiting for things that I have already foreseen. Back to school or back to work?


I just want to be fulfilled with ONE job.



the search continues....


screw the ECONOMY!
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